Do you know how to navigate the authenticity paradox in leadership? 

Understanding authenticity

Authenticity is a buzzword heard everywhere in leadership circles today. We’re constantly bombarded with injunctions to be our “authentic selves.” But what does authenticity mean in the context of the workplace? It can be defined as the state of self-actualization and congruent behavior where our actions are in harmony with our values (but because it is, by definition, a subjective concept and self-reported, it is hard to objectively quantify).

The authenticity paradox

Behaving authentically as a leader has many virtues. Staying true to yourself helps foster honesty and trust and requires less cognitive effort while not being true to your core values can be exhausting – leading to inner turmoil and risking the creation of corporate clones. 

There are also benefits to blending in, such as reducing conflicts and (potentially) gaining respect, especially in diverse and global business environments. The reality of organizational culture often demands a measure of adaptability, leading to what organizational scholar Herminia Ibarra calls being a “chameleon” in the workplace.

However, the dichotomy between authenticity and fitting in is not as straightforward as it seems. Authenticity is often portrayed in binary terms, yet its implications are nuanced. For instance, while it is associated with building trust, authentic behavior may inadvertently cause offense or alienation, keeping you from connecting with others. Ultimately, leadership is best served by connection.

Strategies for navigating the paradox

What does this mean for leaders navigating the authenticity paradox?

• First, acknowledging the social benefits of adaptability while recognizing its inherent emotional toll is crucial.
• Second, finding strategies to express emotions in a healthy and socially acceptable manner can alleviate the burden of emotional labor. (For example, verbalizing negative emotions without displaying aggressive body language and finding outlets such as meditation or exercise to channel negative emotions can be effective coping mechanisms.)