Shift 2: From Objective Detachment to Engaged Presence
Objective Detachment means prioritizing neutrality and impartiality to make unbiased decisions.
Again, this can be valuable in specific contexts. But it can also limit you when emotional connection and genuine engagement are needed. Leaders who rely too heavily on Objective Detachment often prioritize tasks and metrics over relationships and team dynamics. Though physically present, they end up becoming emotionally distant, prioritizing directives over dialogue, and creating an atmosphere that undermines psychological safety, trust, and the ability to foster loyalty and intrinsic motivation.
Teams need more than just information and direction. They need grounding, steadiness, and genuine connection. Your presence is an invaluable asset in uncertain and challenging times.
Engaged Presence means giving your full attentiveness, genuine involvement, and proactively connecting to build trust and psychological safety. It means leading through the authenticity of your being – calm, clear, and emotionally steady – not through forced charisma or authority. This quiet confidence reassures without controlling, conveying integrity through your tone, body language, and the intentional space you create for your team.
When you consistently cultivate Engaged Presence, you foster an environment of psychological safety. People naturally lean into dialogue, conversations deepen, and your influence grows from authentic interaction rather than mere positional authority. Particularly when you are leading dispersed teams, Engaged Presence conveys steadiness and trust in collective capabilities amidst chaos and uncertainty.
How to build Engaged Presence:
- Practice mindful breathing or grounding exercises before key interactions or decisions.
- Practice active, fully attentive listening – without mentally preparing your next response.
- When tensions escalate, consciously lower your voice, slow your pace, and broaden your attentional awareness.
- Don’t confuse presence with performance. Presence is who you are when you’re fully here.