
Six things no one tells you about becoming a leader
Becoming a leader for the first time can be isolating. Here’s what the management playbooks don’t tell you, and some advice on dealing with the new dynamic....

by Nele Dael Published October 23, 2025 in Brain Circuits • 3 min read
Most dialogue around recovery is about its connection to positive effects such as happiness, but framing the approach to recovery in this way may not convince work-driven individuals to prioritize it. Instead, it may be more impactful to highlight benefits to overall mental health, including emotional, physical, and cognitive functioning.
Monitoring an individual’s functioning at these three levels by measuring both the subjective experience and objective indicators of well-being (such as heart rate and brain activation) contributes to a more holistic view of mental health and well-being in the workplace.
Business executives and managers are more likely than other workers to be highly engaged and connected to their organization, but they also experience more stress and other negative emotions related to work, and are likely to experience feelings of frustration, shame, or guilt whenever they take a break. Your job is to free them from this “recovery guilt.” Emphasizing the effectiveness of microbreaks is crucial here.
Executives can embed them into their daily routines, combating exhaustion in a practical, sustainable way, rather than to simply “grin and bear it” until their next stretch of annual leave. The same principle works for holidays: on some measures, short breaks can be more restorative than longer vacations. Longer breaks are necessary, but a mixture of long and shorter breaks will provide the most effective year-round recovery.
Executives must be allowed to accept that running down their reserves or engaging in unsuitable passive recovery activities, because they can’t face going for a run, for example, is counterproductive.
Leaders are role models. The more they prioritize their own well-being, the greater their positive influence on the wider workforce. Such health-oriented leadership has been proven to boost employee well-being by minimizing workplace conflict, reducing job insecurity, and improving working conditions.
By encouraging recovery at the top, CHROs can lay the foundations for a healthier, happier, and more resilient workforce.

Nele Dael is a Senior Behavioral Scientist at IMD Business School, where she co-leads the Workplace Well-being Initiative. An emotion psychologist by training, Dael’s research examines the psychological foundations for sustainable performance – spanning employee mental health, leadership, personal resilience, stress and recovery, and emotion regulation – shaping how people work and lead.
At IMD, Dael translates scientific evidence into actionable frameworks for executives and organizations navigating the demands of today’s workplace. Her work contributes to IMD’s broader mission of empowering leaders to cultivate healthy organizational cultures, reduce burnout, and sustain employee engagement over time. She has authored academic and practitioner publications, including Harvard Business Review, Frontiers Organizational Psychology, Emotion, and Journal of Personality Research.
Before joining IMD and in addition to doing research, she helped spin-off start-ups from EPFL and IDEAP to test and develop an interactive digital technology and machine learning algorithms based on human perception and behavior with the aim to support evidence-based, functional business applications.

April 30, 2026 • by Jennifer Jordan in Brain Circuits
Becoming a leader for the first time can be isolating. Here’s what the management playbooks don’t tell you, and some advice on dealing with the new dynamic....

April 29, 2026 • by Robert Vilkelis, Francesca-Giulia Mereu in Brain Circuits
Learn practical strategies for recognizing neurodivergence in the workplace, turning behavioral differences into strengths through culture-aware leadership....

April 28, 2026 • by Ginka Toegel in Brain Circuits
Learn how great mentors listen, ask better questions, and guide growth—helping mentees gain clarity, confidence, and take meaningful next steps...

April 23, 2026 • by Michael D. Watkins in Brain Circuits
Understand the seven major changes in leadership mindset and capabilities required for successful transition to enterprise leadership, as detailed by Michael D. Watkins....
Explore first person business intelligence from top minds curated for a global executive audience