When your computer starts getting glitchy, slows down, or freezes, the first fix is simple: stop and reboot. But when our minds get overloaded – after a day of back-to-back meetings, for example – we rarely pause to reset.
Since 2020, the average number of daily meetings has increased by 13%, with virtual calls spiking as much as 193%. “I’m in back-to-backs all day” has become a ubiquitous shorthand not only for current status but also for the perpetual survival mode experienced by many workers today. This way of working carries a hidden cost: emotional residue, mental fatigue, and physical tension accumulate, dragging on from one interaction to the next.
It’s no surprise that nearly half of workers report exhaustion by day’s end, and 20–25% are chronically stressed. What’s less obvious is this: the more time people spend in meetings, the less likely they are to take breaks – and the more their energy and performance suffer.
To make better decisions, perform more effectively, think more clearly, and be more present for others, it is critical to learn to stop before you go. This means asking yourself: how should I show up in this next meeting? What kind of energy do I need for what comes next? Do I want to drag my baggage from the last time block to the next?
The good news? You don’t necessarily need hour-long escapes or fewer meetings. What you need is smarter transitions – brief, strategic pauses that help you reset, recover, and refocus.