by Qi Zhang Published May 28, 2026 in Brain Circuits • 2 min read
Answer the following questions honestly to measure your tendency to be conflict-avoidant. To what extent do you exhibit the following behaviors in interactions with colleagues?
If you answered strongly in the affirmative to most of these questions, it sounds like you need to learn to face tension without fear of collapse. A useful way to do this is to think of the cycle of renewal in nature, where change is part of growth and regeneration. Similarly, conflict can be seen as a stepping stone to a bigger picture akin to the four seasons: peace, conflict, separation, and repair.
Peace: The state of mutual respect, care, and shared purpose.
Conflict: The surfacing of tension and friction; the signal that something needs to shift.
Separation: A time out, cooling-off phase – temporary distance to regain perspective.
Repair: The act of reconnection, willingness to understand, and curiosity to learn.
Seeing conflict not as an ending but as an opportunity will open the door to stronger workplace relationships built on mutual respect, honesty, openness, and trust.
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Executive Coach & Leadership Consultant, Founder of Bridge & Enrich Leadership Consultancy
Qi Zhang is an executive coach and consultant in personal development, team performance, and leadership transformation. She is the owner of Bridge & Enrich leadership consultancy.
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