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by Francesca-Giulia Mereu Published August 4, 2026 in Brain Circuits • 3 min read
Ask yourself these questions to help you identify the doubt:
When we feel unsettled, we tend to polarize and generalize. Who is actually questioning your leadership, and what might their reasons be (loyalty to previous team leader, applied for your job unsuccessfully, concern about upcoming changes)?
When feeling uneasy, we might also generalize an attitude when in fact the trigger lies elsewhere, such as a particular process, issue, or context (virtual meetings, the presence of a stakeholder, the weekly update).
Doubt signals a lack of trust. You might be the visible target of this lack of trust, but it might arise for reasons that have little or nothing to do with you.
Due to negativity bias, it’s easy to focus on what concerns us as leaders and neglect to leverage favorable dynamics, but supporters are as important as doubters, especially if you’re new to the role.
Are you arriving in a well-established, smooth-running team that collaborated well before you took over, or was it rudderless for months, with a history of conflicts, and hastily reshuffled to greet you?
Conquer the sceptics by first identifying the reasons for their misgivings.
Identifying the problem is the first step towards resolving it. Now it’s time to focus on the solution.
Consciously shift from answer-holder to question-architect. This means internalizing the belief that your value lies in creating conditions where the team’s expertise can produce outcomes beyond that which any individual could achieve alone.
At some point, you might need to address the doubts openly, either bilaterally or with the whole team.
Find a trusted advisor with whom you can reflect on when, how, and in what sequence to bring the elephant out into the open.
Summarize the facts and your perceptions on a sociogram or similar graphic representation, visualizing each member, their relationship to you, and their relationships with one another. Then create a dashboard with indicators showing how the team is trusting you more over time.

Feeling that others doubt you is a common leadership problem, particularly when new to a role. Conquer the sceptics by first identifying the reasons for their misgivings, then build trust with individuals to win over your team.

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Francesca–Giulia Mereu is an executive coach with over 25 years’ experience, specializing in personal energy management and leadership transition. She is the author of Recharge Your Batteries, a certified yoga teacher, and creator of the popular “Energy Check” online tool. She coaches senior leaders at IMD and through CCHN, the Center of Competence on Humanitarian Negotiation. She shares more energy-focused posts via her LinkedIn private group.

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