Breathing coordination
We react to perceived threats with a short, sharp inhale. This instinctive reaction serves a useful purpose in an emergency, but it may also cause us to lose the ability to think critically â we cannot assess options well and tend to make poor decisions because we are busy âfleeing.â
By contrast, when we are not stressed or in danger, our breathing is calmer: we inhale silently and exhale slowly. When leaders breathe in this way when speaking, they are perceived as not being in fight-or-flight; hence the audience also perceives itself as not under threat.
When it comes to body language, the best way to assess leadership presence, in my experience, is not by looking at the face and limbs, which is what we tend to focus on, but rather by observing the ribs. Our breathing muscles are a huge âtellâ regarding whether we are in fight-or-mode, and this determines the type of response we get.âŻIn fight-or-flight mode, our ribs move less as they express the âfreezeâ aspect of feeling threatened.
Whenever you lose some rib movement, through sometimes unrelated physical tensions, your audience may detect it in your breathing patterns and your sound, perceiving you to be in fight-or-flight mode â even when youâre not.
Letâs take a look at how the presidential candidates compare when it comes to exhibiting this behavior.
Trumpâs performance in theâŻpresidential candidate debate reveals many fight-or-flight symptoms.âŻIn terms of breathing, he inhales sharply and uses very short syllables. He also grimaces when heâs displeased by pinching his lips in a rictus grin, reminiscent of the Joker smile in the Batman films.
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Harrisâs outflow of air is calmer, so sheâs less in fight-or-flight mode in terms of breathing, but she seems almost two-dimensional to me. We see a backward press from her face that makes her smile look flat, creating a sense of tension that could make her appear to lack perspective â or even seem somewhat inauthentic.