What is an omnipotent leader?Â
Omnipotent leaders see themselves as exempt from the norms of ethical or socially acceptable behavior due to a heightened sense of self-importance and entitlement. The mission (or rather their mission) justifies most, if not all, means to an end. Such leaders often exhibit moral licensing, believing past good deeds justify present transgressions. A tell-tale sign is excessive risk-taking and skirting formalities and rules of procedure.Â
In rare cases, omnipotence is associated with underlying and chronic pathological personality traits such as narcissistic personality disorder. More often, omnipotence is an emerging and transient psychological state. Leaders may become “high on their own supply” and exhibit omnipotent traits following significant recognition or a victory rush, such as winning an election, receiving extensive media praise, or achieving a major career milestone.Â
Omnipotence can also be understood within the broader framework of leadership overconfidence and hubris. The hubris syndrome is a condition wherein prolonged power and success lead to narcissistic tendencies, overconfidence, and diminished capacity for critical self-reflection. Research indicates that CEOs often become less altruistic and more self-serving after ascending to their role, exhibiting behaviors that prioritize personal gain over collective welfare, frequently coupled with condescending attitudes toward subordinates and colleagues.Â
Engaging with omnipotent leaders
How can mere mortals – and perhaps conventional and earthbound leaders and collaborators – respond when faced with power dynamics and styles that defy conventional norms of engagement? Three key approaches can be employed:
1. Play your part in the drama
First, understand that theatrics matter. These leaders often frame interactions as symbolic victories rather than substantive discussions. As psychologist Robert Cialdini notes, the principle of commitment and consistency suggests that once a leader has taken a public stance, they are likely to defend it at all costs. Therefore, positioning negotiations as grand, strategic events while subtly steering outcomes can be an effective means of achieving objectives without confrontation.
Second, a common mistake in dealing with such leaders is excessive deference or sycophancy. While flattery may yield short-term gains, it ultimately reinforces erratic behavior. Instead, a more effective approach is identifying and acknowledging legitimate strengths while subtly redirecting discussions toward constructive outcomes. Sometimes, your biggest problem is that you don’t have a seat at the table, even if you feel you have the right to be there. So, defining yourself as a main character and getting noticed is a necessary step.
Third, Ronald Heifetz’s theory of leadership as thermostat-setting applies to all-powerful leaders. This idea suggests that effective leadership is about regulating the emotional and strategic temperature in the organization – ensuring that tension is neither too low (leading to complacency) nor too high (leading to chaos). However, dialing down the temperature is rarely an effective option, as omnipotent leaders thrive on drama and high-stakes narratives. The challenge is not to eliminate the drama but to regulate its intensity – ensuring that negotiations and decision-making remain within manageable thresholds.
Key takeaway: Don’t think you can subvert the drama; play your part in it instead. Rather than challenging an omnipotent leader head-on, anchor your ideas as a natural plot in the leader’s vision, define yourself as a main character, and shape the narrative early. Whoever speaks first sets the stage.
2. Harness the power of ego and persona
Ego-driven leaders exhibit distinct behavioral patterns. Some operate with low self-awareness yet hold an insatiable appetite for power. Their reactions to perceived ego threats can be volatile, making it essential to engage with emotional intelligence. Maintaining a stable emotional stance while avoiding reactionary responses prevents unnecessary escalation. Omnipotent leaders are often very tied to their person – the public and/or private narrative about who they are. Playing into the persona rather than appealing to reason is an effective strategy.
Understanding defense mechanisms is also critical. Leaders operating under stress often resort to immature defense mechanisms such as projection, denial, or aggression. Recognizing these tendencies allows for strategic positioning – acknowledging their authority while maintaining personal integrity.
These tendencies often surface in a psychologist’s practice when leaders struggle with criticism. For example, a senior executive might express frustration that “No one appreciates how much pressure I’m under.” Instead of challenging this defensiveness, a psychologist might say, “You’re carrying a lot, and it makes sense that you want your team to recognize that. Have you found ways to help them see the bigger picture?”
Key takeaway: Frame feedback to omnipotent leaders that align or complement their self-image. Validate their leadership before steering the conversation toward constructive insights. Add new adornments to the omnipotent leader’s self-image. Not with hollow compliments but by reinforcing those grains of character that may in fact support your cause.